I am stingy and love smelly and fastidious in life, mainly reflected in eating:
Cooking dishes must be set before eating; Bottled drinks should be poured into glasses whenever possible; The dumplings must be placed neatly on the small curtain and then under; Practice cooking, to eat like; Addicted to the vegetable market, because can choose, can pick up a fresher.
And so on and so on.
I’m not saying this to say I’m classy. I just want to say that it doesn’t have to be expensive to be elegant.
“Exquisite“, including “ritual sense”, these two concepts, in the final analysis, are “exquisite”.
Oneself small emotional appeal, amuse oneself, this just is its original meaning, with spending how much money to buy what thing concern is not particularly matters, should not bind at least go up in consumption.
Even a lot of niceties can’t be bought:
A room is better to be clean than being full of delicate cure of small things, studying hard from now on is better than writing an everyday diary for self-discipline, sitting down and reading a chapter book is better than taking selfies and spending time on Photoshop, eating well, having a good rest and a good exercise is better than watching Youtubers every day.
Exquisite could have been more real, purer, but later in some marketing guidance, they become “throwing money to fill the scene” and “throwing money to fill the scene”, is no longer inward amusement, become to do for others to see the vanity.
This also takes advantage of people’s lazy psychology, throwing money to fill the “delicacy” of the scene, and simply modifying the “delicacy” of the appearance, which is easy to achieve:
Buy what you want, and if it isn’t pretty, keep buying.
What’s hard to do is the refinement of the interior:
There is no serious illness in your conduct, you have fun in your life, you are reliable in your career, you are popular in your circle, and people around you think you are good.
It’s not easy to do that. It could take half a lifetime.
But life is not a poor performance of students preparing for exams, can not give up the puzzle to fight the basic points.
These internal fixes are delicate, difficult, and necessary.
May we all abandon vanity and be “exquisite people” who are reliable and full and happy.
It is strongly recommended that cultivating a hobby, is the best talent, the cost is not too high but fun if you go on the study, this really can fill a lot of leisure time, practice up much more useful than choosing to buy goods, indulge in consumption is often empty inside, little things can share a lot of energy, not to become spiritual, also make life less boring.
This interest is also a lot of talent, even if it is practicing the word.
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